Being a girl often means a lot of your conversations revolve around fashion, girl-nights in & love.

Love is a something that interests & ignites passion in every girl out there, after all that’s how Nicholas Sparks makes his living. 

Love. We love to talk about love. 

Why? Well because it’s exciting, fascinating, mysterious & fills us with happiness. The idea of love has branded itself perfectly with California Living, we see the potential for romantic dates at a firework show or at a Padres baseball game.

Somehow even the most unromantic spots, like a Mission Beach, become romantic. 

Why? Well because love literally romanticizes life. & that’s perfect if you ask me. Everything is thrilling, exciting, scary, and confusing.

Love is the melting pot of emotions. 

& it means so much to us as young adults, thus why we chat about it for days. 

But I think before you can have that crazy love Taylor Swift talks about, we need to focus on ourselves! 

I am talking some good old me time. Me, me, me & the mall.

Figure out what you want, who you want to be, and where you want to go. Pull a Taylor Swift, switch up your location, cut your hair, buy some new clothes ( & maybe a cat )… & just be you. 

You are perfect. So if you are in-between boys, or lost trying to figure out what you want.

Well take some time & figure out what makes you happy!

My best dating advice is knowing what you want & being authentic to that. 

Think about your friends, I love my friends because they are all equally talented & beautiful, and yet we all have completely different majors & goals.

Guess what, that’s what makes our relationships amazing! 

We are all different, we all have different ways and views, & that is exciting, thrilling, and results in an always entertaining discussions during our Cupcake War Marathons

Be you. Be Confident & Be sure of yourself. 

Anyways that’s my advice, What do you guys think? Tips, Suggestions, Dating Dramas..! Let me know!